JUSTFORINSIGHT

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Have you ever desired for something earnestly that all your thoughts are focused on such thing?

Have you wished you have something good? Is time running out? Have you realized those desires/wishes? Do you think you can ever realize those things you had desired?
Those questions kept ringing in my head. I needed answers to them. More and more questions kept coming. WISHES AND DESIRES.
After a moment of thinking, I started getting good answers to all these questions.
I discovered that not all desires and wishes can come to realization. Yes, that’s right. My reason is that some things we are wishing for or we desire are not for the good of others, themselves and contradicts the will of God (their creator). This things we can relate ourselves.

But that alone did not satisfy me. It has not answered it all. I had to pause for a while, slept over it, did a little research over it (want and desire) and the finally prayed. When I had finished praying I discovered that what I thought initially was the answer to my entire questions.
What’s that? You may ask. It is “PRAYER”. Yes, prayer to God concerning that thing which you desire and wished for brings about quick realization. The Holy Bible made us to understand that prayer is the key. Yes, key that can open any door.

I remembered when I took one exam in my university. The course was not that easy. Right there in the exam hall I started wishing and hoping that I would have a good grade in that course. Couldn’t sleep for days, thinking and wondering what grade I would get in the course. All my thoughts were focused on that result wishing it well. But then I sat down and asked my self this question, “have you even prayed over it?”. When I got this clue I had to start praying immediately over the result. Giving more time to prayer rather than just wishing and hoping for the best without any effort of your maker. You can only connect with your maker and creator through prayer.

But then remember that even if you prayed and what you want and wished for is not inline with the will of God (our creator) then don’t expect to see the realization of such desire.
Never forget that, “how long you have been wishing to get something doesn’t count, what counts is how long you have been praying over it”.

First date is always special, so keep it that way. There are many things you should never do on a first date. Continue reading to know more.

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1. Do not be fake Do not be fake, if you are meeting someone for the first time. Agreed, you would want to leave a lasting impression on that person. But, being someone else will not help you. Be as you are, because that matters the most. Behaving fake might leave a bad impression on your date.

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2. Do not talk about your ex It is not a good idea to talk about your ex on your first date. Your first date is all about you and your date, so why get your ex in between. Know your date properly, and then confide in him about your ex. This should happen on the third or fourth meeting.

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3. Do not feel nervous It is natural to get nervous, if it’s your first date. But, nervousness can also ruin your date. So, act confident when you are meeting your date. It is a good idea to be relaxed; this will also help you to communicate in a better way.

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4. Do not dress inappropriately The way you dress on your first date is important. So, donot overdo your dressing. Do not choose clothes that are too casual. Also, do not choose clothes which are too formal. Choose clothes which can make you look stylish and classy at the same time.

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5. Talk politely Talk politely with your date. The way you talk to your date will have a great impact on him. Do not be rude or arrogant with him, this would be a turn off.

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6. Do not answer your phone calls If you cannot live without your phone, then this tip is for you. While on a first date, do not answer your calls. Do not chat on your phone while talking to your date. This behavior is akin to ignoring him, which he will not like at all.

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7. Do not reveal much Even if you have developed a comfort level with your date, do not reveal much. First date is all about formal introduction. Once you know that he is the one for you, share your inner feelings with him.

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8. Do not talk about love and sex It’s just your first date, so what is the hurry to talk about love and sex. Do not show yourself to be desperate. It is important to be casual about such things when you are on your first date. Its best if u don't pretend 4 your own benefit